you are cordially invited TO THE WEDDING OF

Bernard Martin

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Geralen Befina

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Welcome to our wedding website


We are so excited to share this special day with you! You’ll find all the details about our wedding day here including venue locations, event schedules, and more.


Please explore the site, RSVP, and learn a little more about our journey together. We can’t wait to celebrate with you and create memories that will last a lifetime.


Please use our wedding hashtag:

#BernAndGByGodsGrace

Our Love Story

Some love stories begin with grand gestures.


Ours began with simple glances in the hallways of high school.


We were batch mates — two young hearts who started as secret crushes, teased endlessly by friends through playful jokes. Bernard was too shy to say what he truly felt. Geralen, on the other hand, stayed demure, pretending not to notice the attention.


But somehow, through laughter, teasing, and stolen moments, love slowly found its way. We eventually became a couple — young, hopeful, and unaware of how far our story would go.


Life then blessed us with our first daughter — our very first angel. Suddenly, love became more than sweet messages and kilig moments. It became responsibility, sacrifice, sleepless nights, and choosing each other every single day. We learned, failed, and grew together, and figured out how to become the best parents we could be.


Like every real love story, ours was not perfect. We had misunderstandings and conflicts. But through every challenge, we stayed. We chose forgiveness. We chose commitment.


We sealed our union through a civil marriage — a quiet but meaningful promise that no matter what life brings, we would continue walking side by side. And God continued to bless our family.


Today, we are blessed not only with one, but three beautiful angels: Mikhaela Gabrielle, Theodore Gabriel, and Timothy Gabriel — living reminders of God’s grace and faithfulness in our journey.


From high school crushes to lifelong partners, from young dreamers to husband and wife, from two hearts to a family of five — our story is a testament that true love is not just about finding the right person, but about choosing each other over and over again through every season of life.


And now, before God, our family, and the people we love most, we celebrate not only the beginning of forever… but the beautiful journey that brought us here.

Songahid-Gernale Nuptials

THE ENTOURAGE

Officiating Priest

Rev.Fr. Ronald King B. Laurente

Parents of the Groom

Zoraida B. Songahid
Mansueto C. Songahid

Parents of the Bride

Ruby L. Gernale
Atty. Sulpicio S. Gernale Jr.

Principal Sponsors
To stand as witnesses to our vows

Atty. Benedict Harvey L. Gernale

Mr. Geovanee A. Modina

Mr. Floro V. Corbo

Mr. Manuel R. Espina

Mr. Constancio L. Dejon Jr.

Mr. Raul L. Dejon

Mr. Tranquilino R. Lacaba Jr.

Mrs. Rowena A. Gernale

Dra. Mary Diane Carla C. Modina

Mrs. Delia D. Corbo

Mrs. Bernardita B. Espina

Mrs. Daisy Rosini A. Dejon

Mrs. Corazon S. Dejon

Mrs. Luz L. Persson

Secondary Sponsors

Candle

Noel D. Baldeviso

Ana Margarita B. Songahid

Veil
Atty. Sulpicio Lee L. Gernale III

May Ruth C. Gernale

Cord
Nero A. Durano

Gerlena Ann G. Durano

Best Man

Mansueto B. Songahid Jr.

Maid of Honor

Gernela Sara L. Gernale

Groomsmen

Dr. Rene Joshua C. Lacaba
Anselmo C. Lacaba
Mansueto Songahid III
Edbert John M. Songahid

Bridesmaids
Mikhaela Gabrielle G. Songahid
Dr. Gerlane Lyn L. Gernale
Dr. Jacquelou E. Go
Lyrech Nicole M. Songahid

Ring Bearer

Theodore Gabriel G. Songahid

Coin Bearer

Liam Raphael C. Gernale

Bible Bearer
Luke Alphonsus C. Gernale

Rosary Bearer
Tobbias Wade S. Bontia

Flower Girls
Alexa P. Lacaba

Noelle Devine S. Baldeviso

Elinor S. Baldeviso

Amethyst Sophia C. Gernale

Dress Code

Ninong & Ninang

Women:  Beige Gown

Men: Barong

GUESTS

Women: long or casual dress

Men: semi-formal (long sleeves & slacks)


Strictly no denim

Please adhere to the specified dress code and color motif provided. Dressing accordingly is deeply appreciated, as it will contribute to the elegance and harmony of our celebration.


We look forward to seeing you in your finest that complements our chosen theme!

Gift  Guide

With all that we have, we feel truly blessed. Your prayers and presence are all that we request. But if a present is on your mind, a monetary gift would be kind. It could help us more than words can say to celebrate our special day.

You may give it by cash or thru the following:

  • Security Bank
  • Name: Geralen Befina Gernale-Songahid
  • Account Number: 0000080681812
  • GCash
  • Name: Bernard Martin Songahid
  • Number: 0995-434-1008

Unplugged   Ceremony

We're so glad you're here! As we tie the knot, please be our guest. Please turn off all devices and enjoy being fully present in this moment with us.

The Venue

CEREMONY

Mother of the Redeemer Parish

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RECEPTION

Sabin Resort Hotel

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CEREMONY

Mother of the Redeemer Parish

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Your Questions Answered

  • RSVP

    We are so excited to celebrate our wedding day with you! To ensure an intimate and enjoyable experience for everyone, we have reserved seating for each guest individually. We kindly ask that each invitation is for ONE (1) PERSON ONLY.


    Please RSVP by June 28, 2026 to confirm your attendance.


    We can’t wait to share this unforgettable day with you!

  • Is there parking space available for my car?

    Yes, there is parking available for everyone at the venue. However, please take note that it is first come, first served basis, so you might not want to be late.

  • I said "NO" to the RSVP but I had a change of plans-I can attend now! What should I do?

    • Please check with us first. Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list.



    • Kindly inform us if your schedule clears up, so we can try to accommodate you.



    • If seats become available, we will let you know as soon as possible.



    • Please do not attend unannounced, as we may not have any available seats for you.

  • When is the appropriate time to leave?

    This event took us months to plan, and we want to celebrate it with the people that are very dear to our hearts. We want you to have fun! Celebrate with us until the end of the program!

  • How can I help the couple have a great time during their wedding?

    • Pray with us for favorable weather and the continuous blessings of our Lord as we enter this new chapter of our lives as husband and wife.
    • RSVP as soon as your schedule is cleared.
    • Dress appropriately and follow our wedding motif.
    • Be on time.
    • Follow the seating arrangement in the reception.
    • Stay until the end of the program.
    • Join the activities and enjoy!

  • Can we bring our kids to the wedding?

    This is a strict adult only event. As much as we love your kids and we'd love to celebrate with your kids, the only kids invited to our wedding are the ones in the entourage. We hope you understand and still come and join us in our special day.

  • May I invite a "PLUS ONE" to the event?

    As much as we would love to accommodate all our friends and family, we have a limited number of guests.


    Please understand that this event is strictly by invitation only. Kindly check our invitation to know the number of seats allotted for you. Guests not found on the guestlist provided will not be allowed to enter.

  • What if I RSVP'd but cannot attend?

    We would love to have you at our wedding, but we understand that there are circumstances beyond our control. However, please let us know as soon as possible so we can reallocate your seat/s.

  • Can I sit anywhere at the reception?

    Please don't. It took us a lot of effort and discussion to finish the seating arrangement, which is planned for everyone's convenience and preference, but there is no need to worry! You'll surely be seated with your friends or people that you have same interest with.



    Our coordinators will gladly assist you in finding your designated seat after registration. Feel free to ask them for assistance and they will gladly help you.

  • Am I allowed to take pictures and/or videos during the ceremony?

    We request everyone to keep the ceremony camera-free. While our I Do’s are unplugged, our reception is not and definitely as a couple who loves pictures, you’ll get tons of options to take your pictures. We prepared for this event wholeheartedly.


    Please use our wedding hashtag: 

    #BernAndGByGodsGrace

  • Do we really need to RSVP? We already said "YES" to the couple.

    Yes, please. We will be needing your formal RSVP to consolidate guest details and finalize the headcount for catering and seating purposes.

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PRENUP PHOTOS

RSVP

We are excited to celebrate our Wedding with our closest families and friends!


The favor of a response is requested before

June 28, 2026. Thank you!

BERNARD MARTIN AND GERALEN BEFINA | RSVP